We are all in the constant process of becoming. Every moment, we absorb impressions from the world, and in turn, we reflect ourselves back onto it. This process never stops, yet one fundamental question determines the quality of our lives:
Are we consciously shaping who we are becoming, or are we unconsciously allowing the world to shape us?
This question defines not only our identity but also the depth of our personal, social, and spiritual fulfillment.
At its core, the process of becoming follows two distinct paths:
1. Becoming a Reflection of the World
One of the most common ways we evolve is by simply mirroring the world around us. Social norms, expectations, experiences—whether good or bad—begin to mold us, often without us realizing it. When we are on this path, we react to situations rather than respond with intention.
We become a collection of external influences rather than a unique, conscious individual. The more we give in to these impressions without awareness, the more we lose our distinctiveness. We unknowingly allow the world to dictate how we think, feel, and behave.
The result? A life that lacks personal power, individuality, and deeper meaning. We become someone—but not necessarily ourselves.
2. Becoming Our True Selves
The second path is one of intention, self-awareness, and inner strength. It is the process of preserving and nurturing our unique energy—the fraction of universal consciousness that exists within us. Instead of passively absorbing the world’s influence, we become active creators of our identity.
This doesn’t mean shutting out the world or resisting change. Rather, it means being mindful of what we absorb, holding onto our inner power, and shaping ourselves with purpose. It means honoring our individuality instead of simply fitting in.
This path requires courage. It requires a conscious decision to be rather than to conform.
But how do we shift from being a mere reflection of the world to becoming who we are meant to be?
Three Key Steps to Reclaim Your Power
1. Cultivate Awareness
Awareness is the first step in taking back control of who you are becoming. Ask yourself:
- Am I shaping my thoughts, or are they simply reactions to my surroundings?
- What influences am I allowing into my mind, and are they in alignment with my values?
- Am I actively choosing my path, or am I being carried along by external expectations?
When you become aware of how you are being shaped, you regain the power to reshape yourself. Without awareness, you are simply a passenger in your own life.
2. Redirect Your Energy
Once awareness is established, the next step is to take ownership of where your energy is going. Many of us spend our time reacting to external events—social media, news, opinions, and pressures—without realizing that our energy is being pulled away from our true selves.
Instead of passively consuming, shift your focus toward creating. Invest your energy into activities, thoughts, and practices that nurture your inner growth. This means:
- Choosing mindfulness over mindless distractions.
- Prioritizing self-reflection over external validation.
- Channeling energy into meaningful pursuits rather than reacting to the noise around you.
Every moment, you have a choice: to let the world pull you in different directions or to consciously direct your energy toward becoming the best version of yourself.
3. Develop the Courage to Be You
Becoming your true self is not always easy. The world will constantly try to shape you into what it expects, and resisting that pull requires immense courage.
- Do you have the courage to stand firm in your values, even when they go against popular opinion?
- Can you embrace your uniqueness instead of hiding it to fit in?
- Are you willing to choose authenticity over approval?
True fulfillment comes when you have the courage to embrace your individuality and become the person you were meant to be—not just another version of what the world wants you to be.
Becoming Whole and Complete
At the heart of this journey is a deeper truth: fulfillment comes from wholeness. If you are merely a reflection of external influences, you will always feel like something is missing. But when you actively nurture your own inner world, you begin to experience a sense of completeness.
- Every day, every moment, you are in the process of becoming. The question is:
- Are you becoming a reflection of the world, or are you becoming your true self?
- Choose wisely.
